You've probably had some success with the ladies on your college PUA journey, but if you've "gamed" a lot on your university campus, you have probably been victim of the side effects that come from the seduction community:
Are you losing potential dates with girls at school fast because your sleazy player reputation has girls on guard?
Do your pick up lines spark attraction ok with say less hot girls, but when you try to pick up an exceptionally hot girl, you always get blown out?
Are you coming across as creepy around college girls? I won't judge you. Be honest.
The seduction community is not perfect, and in many ways can be harmful to your social skills. College girls -- get to see the subtle yet negative side effects that develop within college PUAs who are trying to improve their social skills, because other PUAs are not surrounded by a large social group, and they do not have a reputation to manage as they game in a big city which offers them the protection of anonymity.
A girl in college is experienced enough to smell your player vibe with ease. Ironically, the thing that has blocked you from getting the real success is gaming itself. She can tell that you talking to her is simply a means to an end -- her pants.
The main reason that you may come across as "creepy" with women, is that you are way too attached to the outcome of trying to "close", and people can feel it.
If you are socializing because you want to get laid, then you will reek of player. If you're trying to improve yourself as a man, nothing you do should be a means to an end. In other words, if you "game" as a means to an end, you will be attached to the outcome and therefore come across as very needy.
Go to the bar because you want to -- for yourself. Be the life of the party because you want to -- not because you want to get laid, or fit in. Talk to girls purely because you want to -- not because you want to have sex with them.
A guy who does things purely because he enjoys the activity is a genuinely fun guy. This is attractive to college girls. More girls will be attracted to you, If you can go out and have fun even if nobody talks to you.
Lack of neediness can be faked in a cold set, but in college, push pulls, negs and takeaways aren't going to cut it. You have to CHILL out. This is deep level lack of neediness, which can't be faked. If you are pretending to be hard to get as you chase set after set after set, don't you see the irony?
Find some HIGH value friends that are not a means to the end of hooking up with college girls. Throw a big bash -- or even a small get together -- and invite new friends and acquaintances. When you start to realize that you are the warm end of the pool, people want to hang out more and more. In this way, you can have LOTS of fun, game less and still managed to have more success with girls.
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